Re: Re: migrating PHPs across machines...
| From: | Peter Petermann | Date: | Sat, 12 Jan 2002 18:45:46 +0000 |
| Subject: | Re: Re: migrating PHPs across machines... | ||
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> When somebody steps on your feet deliberately what do you do? Certainly
> you will not say "Thank you hit again"!
> > He is not showing off his status. He is venting frustration that many
> > in the community feel. Many of the long and loud threads on this list
> > over the last little while have been pointless fights...
> Zak, Derick started it by turning this thread into a pointless fight as
> you say.
he just said what he was thinking about your mail.
you didnt accept that critic
> > You defend yourself so vigorously and take offense so quickly that
> > people have trouble relating to you.
> If and when you ever be faced by misunderstanding and bias against you,
> you will understand me.
maybe youre paranoid?
> > [cut]
> > > It was not intended, but now you have to face the justice or Mr. Net
cop
> > > Derick.
> > Actually I don't - in fact, I don't recall ever having been troubled
by
> > those who disagree with you. I am probably the least adept of the
people
> > actively involved with the development effort and I make a lot of
mistakes
> > and foolish suggestions, yet no one troubles me...
> Sorry, when I said "you" I mean somebody that could be me or anybody
> that has to put up with a net cop like person, not that it will happen
> to you.
Everyone working on net meets a "net cop" one day,
but
believe, derick is no net cop.
> > > Just to relax, you know that 4 years ago I wrote a book named
something
> > > that would be translated as "Being on the Internet". I have one
chapter
> > > that talks about typical behaviours that the Internet make outstand in
> > > users. One of the described behaviours is what I called the "Net Cop".
> > > It is that guy that thinks of himself of a big shot that knows all and
> > > is going to fix the world by repressing others. Derick just reminded
me
> > > of a Net Cop. Anyway, I tend to understand people like him, because as
I
> > > explained in the book, usually people just repress others because they
> > > are or at least were repressed by others in the past. Despite they
hated
> > > it, they just do the same and repress others with shouting at them
with
> > > public messages to try to humilliate them, just like Derick tried.
Never
> > > mind, nothing that some good analysis sessions would not solve! :-)
> > Manuel, you are very intelligent and have the benefit of being older
than
> > many of us on the list - why can't you identify your own behavior in
the
> > bad things that you attribute to others?
> I was attacked and I feel that I have the right to respond to protect me
> from being humilliated by kids like Derick that have to intention
> respect me.
see my other mail. dont take this as attack, understand why derick is
writing that.
dont blame it on derick, try to find out what YOU did wrong.
> > I believe that you are a net cop. Derick certainly is not - I somewhat
am
> So, you did not what understand (or I was not able to explain) what a
> net cop is. A net cop is just a person that voluntarily sits that and
> try to police people just to nailed them sometimes imposing public
> humilliation. That is what Derick did by his own initiative. Regardless
> if he or anybody liked my response, he should not forget that was just a
> reaction to his attact to my person.
so in your view everyone who says something negative about you, even
if he is just criticizing, he is a net cop?
everyone not agreeing with you is a big bad net cop?
wake up!
> Actually I find more valuable the people that have the guts to speak up
> what they think, even if they defy my points of view, rather than stay
> quite in the background boycotting my initiatives.
lol
just my 2 cents
regards,
Peter Petermann
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