Ming library

I've developed the web-site by PHP with using Ming-library. All worked well on the local computer, but when I uploaded all to the internet server I have got an error :( Ming library does not set in php.ini. The hosting provider company does not want to add "extension=php_ming.so" to php.ini. What should I do??? dl() function does not work too, because it is multithreaded Web servers. I'm congused... I really need to use it! Maybe I can find such library written by PHP? There are few classes, nothig else. Help me, please!!