FastCGI + PHP5

Hi all. anyone using FastCGI + PHP + Apache 1.3. ? I've been trying for two days and i can't seem to configure apache with php fastcgi. i have php set with: ../configure --enable-fastcgi \ --enable-discard-path \ --enable-force-cgi-redirect \ --with-mysql=/usr/local/mysql \ --with-xml \ --with-gd \ --with-freetype-dir=/usr/lib \ --with-jpeg-dir=/usr/lib \ --with-png-dir=/usr/lib \ --with-xpm --enable-magic-quotes \ --with-pear \ --enable-gd-native-ttf \ --enable-memory-limit \ --with-zlib that seems to be ok, php is running as (cgi-fcgi). my problem is getting apache to run php cgi. anyone have any decent docs getting the config working? i guess not many people using FastCGI w/PHP because it's seems so complicated to setup. btw i have already installed the fastcgi libs and mod_fastcgi. what should an apache configure line look like when you complie php/fastcgi with it.. am i suppose to install apache first? some people say you have to install apache first but if you install apache first how will it locate the php libs?