installing 4.3.1

Finally ran into problems installing php. I'm installing with mysql support for mysql4.0.11. here is my configure line: ./configure \ --with-gd \ --with -freetype-dir=/usr \ --enable-gd-native-ttf \ --enable-gd-imgstrttf \ --with-jpeg-dir=/usr \ --with-png-dir=/usr \ --with-zlib \ --with-apxs=/usr/local/apache/bin/apxs \ --with-mysql=/usr/local/mysql ext/mysql/php_php_mysql.lo: In function `zif-mysql_create_db': /usr/local/php-4.3.1/ext/mysql/php_mysql.c:1118: undefined reference to `mysql_create_db' ext/mysql/php_php_mysql.lo: In function `zif-mysql_drop_db': /usr/local/php-4.3.1/ext/mysql/php_mysql.c:1118: undefined reference to `mysql_drop_db' collect2: ld returned 1 exit status make: *** [sapi/cli/php] Error 1 one question is why is it looking in /usr/local/php-4.3.1/ext/mysql if I've given it a different location and don't want the bundled mysql ? after installing psahp/mysql/apache at least 5 times on a linux box and three times on a windows box I'm a little embarassed to be asking fore assistance. John Coder