Help w/ PHP install

I've got a Cobalt Raq3i that I'm trying to install PHP and MySQL to and am having some problems. I need your help please. I installed PHP 4.3.2. It looked it like included MySQL, but I didn't find 'mysqld' anywhere, so I just assumed it didn't install. Plus, I figured, that it wasn't the latest version, so I downloaded and installed MySQL 4.0.14. I got MySQL running just fine and I'm able to connect to it and run all of the tests successfully. Now, when I try to recompile PHP and passing the directory of the MySQL that I downloaded it's erroring out. Here's what I'm doing... ./configure --with-apxs=/usr/sbin/apxs --with-mysql=/usr/local/mysql then, I do a 'make' It's erroring out w/: ext/mysql/php_mysql.lo: In function `zif_mysql_create_db': /home/php/php-4.3.2/ext/mysql/php_mysql.c:1115: undefined reference to `mysql_create_db' ext/mysql/php_mysql.lo: In function `zif_mysql_drop_db': /home/php/php-4.3.2/ext/mysql/php_mysql.c:1157: undefined reference to `mysql_drop_db' collect2: ld returned 1 exit status make: *** [sapi/cli/php] Error 1 What do you recommend that I do at this point? THANKS for the help, folks. Shawn