note 110832 added to function.mysql-connect

I am trying to connect to my sever from another sever. here's my code : $c=mysql_connect("apaland.com:3306","myusername","mypass") or die(mysql_error()); but when i run this code I get this result: Warning: mysql_connect() [function.mysql-connect]: Lost connection to MySQL server at 'reading initial communication packet', system error: 110 in /home/bubelnkz/public_html/test_remote.php on line 62 Lost connection to MySQL server at 'reading initial communication packet', system error: 110 what can I do? ---- Server IP: 69.147.83.199 Probable Submitter: 72.52.91.2 (proxied: 188.245.189.227) ---- Manual Page -- http://php.net/manual/en/function.mysql-connect.php Edit -- https://master.php.net/note/edit/110832 Del: integrated -- https://master.php.net/note/delete/110832/integrated Del: useless -- https://master.php.net/note/delete/110832/useless Del: bad code -- https://master.php.net/note/delete/110832/bad+code Del: spam -- https://master.php.net/note/delete/110832/spam Del: non-english -- https://master.php.net/note/delete/110832/non-english Del: in docs -- https://master.php.net/note/delete/110832/in+docs Del: other reasons-- https://master.php.net/note/delete/110832 Reject -- https://master.php.net/note/reject/110832 Search -- https://master.php.net/manage/user-notes.php