RE: [PEAR-DEV] My apologies
| From: | Lukas Smith | Date: | Mon, 19 May 2003 11:04:01 +0000 |
| Subject: | RE: [PEAR-DEV] My apologies | ||
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> From: Bertrand Mansion [mailto:bmansion@mamasam.com]
> Sent: Sunday, May 18, 2003 5:59 PM
> I would like to apology for the rude words I had towards Pierre-Alain
Joye
> in a few recent mails. Just like everyone here, I would like to keep
the
> good and well behaved discussions we used to have on this list,
intact.
>
> If this implies me closing my mouth, I'll do it. I am a bit of a
nervous
> type of guy and communicating via email is hard because it actually
needs
> self-control, the words you choose can sometime be too strong. I am
still
> learning. If my recent mails hurt you, please forgive me.
I very much appreciate this mail, just as I appreciate the mail from
Arnaud. I think its great if we get along and I think there is even
great potential to make real friends within the PEAR community. However
we must realize that it would be unrealistic to expect this from all
relations. Therefore I would hope that in this cases we can try to keep
it professional (I think is the case for a lot of people, but I am here
mainly because improving PEAR helps my company .. so the bottom interest
is professional for me here).
A separate issue is that we all come from different backgrounds, have
different native languages, slang or general ways of dealing with other
humans. So when in doubt try to interpret messages in a positive
context. And when you are sure they are insulting reduce your
interaction to a professional level.
Again we all have a lot to learn as we build up this community for the
road a head!
Thx,
Lukas